Dogs peeing when they're excited or fearful is a behavior often referred to as "submissive urination" or "excitement urination." This behavior is more common in puppies and some adult dogs but can occur in dogs of all ages. Here's why it happens:

1. Submissive Urination:

  • Submissive urination typically occurs when a dog is feeling overly submissive or anxious. It's a way for them to communicate that they pose no threat.
  • Submissive urination often happens when a dog is greeted by a person or another dog, during a scolding, or in situations where they feel vulnerable.
  • It's more common in puppies or shy, timid dogs but can persist into adulthood.

2. Excitement Urination:

  • Excitement urination is related to excessive excitement. It's more likely to occur in puppies and young dogs but can also happen in some adult dogs.
  • Dogs may lose control of their bladder when they become overly excited, such as when their owner comes home, during playtime, or when meeting new people or dogs.

How to Handle Excitement and Submissive Urination:

  1. Stay Calm: If your dog urinates when excited, try to stay calm and not react too enthusiastically when you greet them. Overexcited greetings can exacerbate the problem.

  2. Training: Obedience training can help build your dog's confidence and reduce submissive behavior. Positive reinforcement techniques are often effective.

  3. Potty Breaks: Ensure that your dog has had a chance to go outside and relieve themselves before situations where they might become excited or anxious.

  4. Ignore Submissive Behavior: When your dog is displaying submissive urination, it's best to avoid direct eye contact, crouching, or speaking in a high-pitched tone, as these actions may increase anxiety.

  5. Consult a Professional: If the issue persists or is causing distress for your dog, consider consulting a professional dog trainer or a veterinary behaviorist. They can provide tailored guidance and strategies to address the problem.

It's important to note that while excitement and submissive urination can be frustrating for pet owners, it's not a behavioral problem that your dog can control willingly. It's often rooted in their personality, temperament, or past experiences. Patience, understanding, and consistent training can help manage and, in some cases, reduce these behaviors. If the issue continues or worsens, seeking professional help is a wise choice to ensure your dog's well-being and address the underlying causes.